MULTIPLE ORGASMS IN MEN?

A great fallacy exists in sexual politics. Namely that a man, his orgasm and his ejaculation are one and the same thing. No. They are not. Scientific research, actually carried out in the eighties confirmed this. A man can have one without the other. The process needs control to separate the two, but is most definitely possible.

HOW?

In layman’s terms, the process is dependent upon a muscle in the bladder. Basically, the external muscle of the bladder. The one you use when you  want to go to the bathroom (to urinate) but hold out because something interesting is on the TV! The principle is fundamentally the same. That is the muscle that you need exercise to build up your power of control. To achieve multiple orgasm status, men have to be sexually experienced and obviously not suffering from premature ejaculation. If you aren’t up to it yet, read and apply the early posts of this blog until you’re a master!

Then proceed as follows.

EXERCISE.

As with any exercise, one sees results only when the exercises are done regularly and with discipline. So stick with it and the results will come as if by magic.

For example: Step 1:

Contract and release. Contract and release. etc. etc. Repeat.

Perform 200 a day in batches of 20 spread throughout the day.

Step 2:

As above. But on each contraction, hold it 3 seconds, then release.

Even if you weren’t aiming to become a multiple orgasm guy the benefits from this exercise are tremendous. Toning this muscle and keeping it in good shape will help ejaculation control and your sex life in general, later in life. Regular exercise forces blood through the veins unblocking arteries, leading to longer erections, and good protection against disease and impotence. Don’t rush into the exercises, build them up gradually.

Step 3:

Once you feel you have better control, that the exercise has helped tone the muscle and its strength, it’s time for step 3. Once you achieve some kind of “muscle tone”, practice with masturbation. Take it to the verge of climax. Try to hold back and control it. Therefore developing control. Developing timing of control. Many times, early on, you will misjudge it and release. Don’t worry. It’s to be expected.

You’re target is to take it five times. (Yes five times! To the verge of orgasm and then contract and hold back). After the fifth time, reward yourself and release.

Step 4:

This really is the crucial stage. Don’t get to this until you’ve practiced as above for at least two weeks. Do as above, but go gently beyond the orgasm point but don’t ejaculate. Fluid will be released, But try to minimize it. Try to control it. Bringing tension to bear on the muscle can work for or against this. It may “wring” out the fluid, or it may help contain it.

If you are even when tensing, releasing fluid, gently pulling your testicles downward will stop it. As when you ejaculate, the testicles automatically rise. So, if you ejaculate slightly it doesn’t matter. You will lose some firmness but not enough not to able to continue.

The idea is this. The first orgasm is so to speak, “dry”. The next one some fluid gets out. The next one you finally orgasm again and fully ejaculate. After you’ve applied step 4 and had results which indicate that you’ve experienced something of the multiple sensation. Then try it on a girl.

Persist and you will succeed. Its a new process. A new way to approach an age old theme. A new re-conditioning of the body. Although we’ve talked about multiple orgasms in both sexes, remember, it’s a shared thing.

It’s not a “me” thing, or a “you” thing.

Don’t be selfish! It’s an “us” thing!

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HOW TO STOP PREMATURE EJACULATION

The primary cause of premature ejaculation is excessive stimulation through friction to the glans, below the head of the penis. This over sensitivity and lack of control leads a man to ejaculating early, causing disappointment for him and his partner (as you know, women take a lot longer, just to reach the “warm up” stage).

REDUCE THE FRICTION

Thus, to avoid it, and get a longer time inside his partner before the man climaxes, a good option is to reduce the amount of friction, thereby reducing the amount of sensation to the head. To do this, it is essential to reduce the amount of movement once inside. THAT’S BORING! It doesn’t have to be that way. A good move is to gyrate the hips slowly, and build up motion. Or try clockwise, or counter-clockwise circle rotations using the penis.

The female is being stimulated.  She’s happy as long as he’s in there, and her necessary zones are being stimulated. Same for him. Both happy. Many men are in, bang – bang – bang. The circular motion could be seen as an element of style. On top of that, many women love slow love. This is a great technique.

Practiced properly, the man can end up legendary in his longevity.

WITHDRAW

Yes! If you take your penis out a short while before you feel that you are going to come, withdraw your penis. A cool down period of one minute can lead to possibly 10-15 minutes of lovemaking time. Girls, once they are hot, don’t cool down so fast, while you cool for a minute, she’ll still be hot. So, you can maintain her mood (and temperature) meanwhile, by using your fingers and tongue.

MASTURBATE!

A fool proof method is to masturbate a while before you intend to make love. The time depends on you. That is how soon you recover and be ready to go again. Ejaculation the second time around usually takes longer and is less copious in the amount of fluid produced. Obviously, if you do this too early, then the problem may not be solved. Judge it by how long a gap you feel you need.

TRAINING THROUGH MASTURBATION

Masturbate for fifteen minutes. If you tend to come quickly, this will be far too long. When you feel you are about to ejaculate, go easy on the hand stimulation. Once you feel you’ve cooled down a bit, pick up the pace again.

Never totally stop the stimulation, just vary the intensity.

Practice makes perfect. And with practice of this technique your target should be to be able to continue self-stimulation at a fair pace with enough control to not have to stop, until the 15 minutes, or your allowed time, is up. This technique can give you great mastery of control, and is worth persisting with.

Premature ejaculation is a serious problem. But applying the above methods can lead to a very effective solution. Remember, women really do appreciate a longer, longer, longer lasting lover!

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